Wednesday, July 14, 2010

What a Character


I don't know about you, but strangers LOVE to talk to me: in the grocery store, in line at the movies, on an airplane when I have a laptop in front of me. Sometimes I think I have a sign on my forehead that says, "TALK TO ME...FOR HOURS...BECAUSE I'LL LISTEN." Would I like to hear about your recent colonoscopy? You betcha! Oh, man, you're getting a divorce? Sure! Tell me all about how ugly it's going to be TOTAL STRANGER!

I really should travel with a pop up leather couch and start charging by the hour.

I think, however, that I may have pinpointed why total strangers like to share their life stories with me:

I smile. I'm a smiler. Yep, that's me.

Actually, most of the time I'm happy to talk with people and hear about where they've come from, where they've been - especially the elderly. Oh man, I could listen to their stories for hours (if only they could stay awake that long!). The only time I get a little cranky with chatty people is if I'm in a big hurry to get somewhere (which is rare) or have a cranky child on my hands (which is NOT so rare).

I love to listen.

This works to my benefit where my writing is concerned. I put away these stories in my mental filing cabinet and pull them out when I need a little something extra for a character. In fact, one of the supporting characters in my book is based on a woman I met in line for an amusement park ride.

In the busy, day-to-day goings on, it's really easy to tune people out. But if you're a writer, maybe the next time a total stranger strikes up a conversation, you should tune in! You never know what you might hear...like the time a lady told me that she had "accidentally" shot her husband (he lived, although I'm not sure she was happy with that outcome!).

What about you? Are you a listener? Do you use what you hear in your stories?


7 comments:

  1. It must be the smile that draws people in!

    Since I started I writing I pay attention to everything more than before. The sky is my favorite canvas. I love laying in the grass looking up and watching a whole new worle evolve in my imagination.

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  2. I'm a listener big time. Wrote something about this on Monday. You and I, babe. Great minds. ;)
    ~ Wendy

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  3. I think I'm a good listener too. People must think so because I'm often surprised at how much people tell me. :)

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  4. Good advice. I love to listen to people talk and tell their stories. I've definitely used more than one story told to me or overheard for my books.

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  5. You just described me completely! My kids get embarrassed when I strike up a conversation with a complete stranger, but, hey, it's great fodder for my next piece of work. Listening is an art only a writer can understand.

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  6. I'm sure it's the smile that does it!

    You're right, Beth. A great way to pick up characters and file them away for future use!

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  7. I'm the same. I'm a smiler and people totally talk to me all the time about all of their personal stuff. I'm either a good listener or super nosy.

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